Trans Man Talk: Does Size Matter?


I was chatting with a very interesting young lady about penis size and how much it matters to a woman. I see that it varies depending on the lady. When I told her I looked to get a 7 to 8 inch penis, she semi frowned at me like she was disappointed. She said to me “if you can choose why go small?”


The average male is 5.16 inches long and has about a 4.19 inch circumference according to the Huff Post. After going back and forth we came to the conclusion that there is a stigma in the African American community on penis size. My answer to this was “my preferable penis size is not for the pleasure of you, it’s for my comfort. 8 inches is small relatively speaking. “ She said she likes them big so she can feel full. I have heard this from multiple women in my community so im seeing that size can be a factor in a mans sexual relationship with women. I know it would be possible to tame an anaconda but I really don’t feel the need to impress anyone. My future boo will just need to be happy with what I have or keep it moving. I know for a fact the size that I want is good enough for thick women to enjoy. So that’s what I’m sticking to for now. I have plenty of time to rethink my penis size so I’m not going to stress all that just yet.

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  1. tglicious · October 12, 2015

    I think, the real question is, what size would you be comfortable with? I had a similar situation when I went boobs shopping; the Double D or regular C. I want to wear a bikini (or lingerie) and look hot, for me, not for the dude who I may meet in the future. 🙂

    • Suites · October 12, 2015

      I agree…I wouldn’t be sure until after the fact…I know I want to be of a bigger size though.

      • tglicious · October 12, 2015

        It would be awesome! 🙂

  2. Lana · October 13, 2015

    Honestly, 7 inches I think is a perfect size. 8 is nice but any thing above is just a waste. Then again whatever outcome you get you have to be happy with. When I went to get my boobs done I wanted to be a DD because I’m tall. The doctor told me I can’t guarantee you that you will be that size because each bra company is different. I got the largest implants at 616cc and in VS I’m a 34DD so I’m happy and stick to VS bras lol. My doctor told me if I wanted bigger then I’d have to get a second surgery but I’m extreamly happy with my size.

    • Suites · October 13, 2015

      I appreciate that…that’s what’s I thought…but everyone has their preference…congrats on the boobs…I know you were happy after your surgery just like I will be after I finally get mine. Thanks for reading.

  3. emergingnorthener · October 28, 2015

    Thanks for stopping by and the like. x

    • Suites · October 28, 2015

      Thanks for reading…appreciate the love…anytime

  4. AccidentallyGay · January 22, 2016

    Like everyone is saying, what makes you comfortable is the only correct size.

    However, I do have a couple of observations as someone who is fairly larger than what you are hoping for (over double the average size). There is such a thing as too large, it isn’t comfortable and it isn’t as usable as the porn industry would like you to think it is.

    The lady you were talking with may not realize how big 7 – 8 inches is. They have done studies and people (women and men) are horrible at telling how big something is. I have been told I am a too large to do certain activities, and the other activities I still have to be really careful or bruising/aching could be my partner’s results.

    I personally would like to reduce down to that size. I think it would probably be more useful and therefore more fun. My experience would support the size you are looking for. Not that my opinion is an expert, but I just wanted to give you feedback.

    Don’t second guess yourself!

  5. AccidentallyGay · January 22, 2016

    That is weird, I actually wrote that post awhile ago, but it was still sitting there to be posted when I came back to check up. Sorry if the response is timed weirdly 🙂

  6. maybe Sebastian, i havent decide yet · March 12, 2016

    Hi, I’m from Brazil, i found your blog doing my research about transgender. I recently accept myself as a ftm trans and all this questions and concerns pop up in my head… (thanks, by the way for write about!). Anyway, once i get sure about the sizes you’re talked about it, by making the conversion from inches to centimeters, it was a biig reliaf and i kind of laughed about! I’m still discovering and exploring the possibility of have a penis (that i dream so much) and 7 inches is bigger than i could believed possible. =D Even for brazilians cis this size is good. Wish you the best!

    • Suites · July 16, 2016

      thank you for your words…this is just my opinion…do whatever makes you happy and make sure to live your truth for you…not anyone else. be well

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